Dear Deirdrie,

I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice. I have
suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The
usual signs. phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

My wife has been going out with "the girls" a lot recently although when
I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't
know them." I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but
I usually fall asleep.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep
down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again
and I decided to really check on her. Around midnight, I decided to hide in
the garage behind my golf clubs so I could get a good view of the whole
street when she arrived home from a night out with "the girls". When she got
out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took
her panties out of her purse and slipped them on.

It was at that moment, crouching behind my clubs, that I noticed that
the graphite shaft on my driver appeared to have a hairline crack right
by the club head.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the pro
shop where I bought it?

Confused Husband



John